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Mary Basterash Obituary
Jul 21, 1937 - Sep 8, 2024
Milan
Mary E. Basterash, 87, residing in Milan, passed away Sunday, Sept. 8, 2024, at Twilight Gardens in Norwalk.
Mary was born July 21, 1937, in Milan, to the late Lyle Huntley and Mary (Turner) Schafer.
Mary graduated from Edison High School. Mary served her community with dedication as a councilwoman and utility clerk in Milan, where her hard work earned her numerous accolades, including receiving the key to the city. In her spare time, she enjoyed reading, crocheting, and cooking. She loved animals, especially her beloved dog, Max, and cats Puffer and Mitten. She was also a proud member of the Queen Esther Order of The Eastern Star in Milan.
Mary is survived by her husband, Vernon Basterash, whom she married in 1956. She is also survived by her daughter, Mary Catherine Shafer; grandson, Jonathan (Becky) Shafer; great-grandson, Asher Shafer; and numerous nieces, nephews, and other relatives.
Friends may call Friday, Sept. 20, 2024, from 10 a.m. until the time of Eastern Star Service at 11 a.m., followed by Memorial Services at Groff Funeral Home Milan, 1 South Main Street, Milan, OH 44846, with Pastor Ted Buehl presiding. Burial will take place at Milan Cemetery.
Those wishing to contribute to Mary's memory may do so to Shriners Children's, PO Box 947765, Atlanta, GA 30394 or Humane Society of Erie County, 1911 Superior St, Sandusky, OH 44870.
Condolences may be shared online at www.grofffuneralhomes.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Mary Basterash
Rex Stanforth
September 30, 2024
While going back through some old Drama Club records I was reminded of the time Mary took Cathy, Becky Stiles, Elizabeth Rice and Lisa Chauvin to NYC to see Annie and Sly Fox. Fond memories.
Don Gurney
September 16, 2024
Once upon a time, she gifted me a lamb for a pet. Lambchop, of course. She
was a friend for life. (most of it) My prayers go out to her family.
Barbara Zeck
September 13, 2024
Mary was the first friend I met when we moved to Milan. We hit it off at once. When ever I came back to visit she was the first one I saw and we alway went to lunch at Jim's. Even tho we were so far apart we always had each other in our thoughts. Many prayers for you Vern. I love you both. Barbara Zeck, Arizona
Zeckariah Heater
September 12, 2024
Mary was such an amazing neighbor and she loved my girls. She will be deeply missed. We love you Mary & Vern.
Jim
September 11, 2024
Mary was a very dear friend and co-worker for many years.... always there to offer advice or help... was a very closed family friend... will miss her dearly
thanks for everything. You wil be missed by many... especially Vern....
BRIAN KINNARD
September 11, 2024
Grew up across the street from Her. Was always nice. Will be missed.
Lisa Westcott
September 11, 2024
My 5 years working with Mary at the Milan Village Utility Office are some that I think fondly of. Mary opened my eyes to the ways of the world. She was someone that I really looked up to.
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