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Shirley Matter

1934 - 2023

Shirley Matter obituary, 1934-2023, Clyde, OH

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1934

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2023

Shirley Matter Obituary

Shirley Ann Matter

Jan 31, 1934 - May 14, 2023

Clyde

Shirley A. (Morgenstern) Matter, 89, of Clyde, died peacefully Mother's Day, Sunday, May 14, 2023, in Champaign, Illinois, with her family at her side.

She was born Jan. 31, 1934, in Clyde, to Mildred (Roberts) and Ernest Morgenstern who preceded her in death. Shirley was a 1951 graduate of Clyde High School where she was active in business administration classes along with being a cheerleader.

She went steady with the love of her life, Chelcer Matter, during high school, after graduation and through his service in U.S. Army (1953-55) during the Korean War. They married May 1, 1955, at Clyde First United Methodist Church. They celebrated their 66th anniversary in May, 2021, and Chelcer passed shortly after on June 26.

Along with being a loving wife and mother, Shirley worked at Pearce Insurance in Clyde for close to 40 years. She was also a long-time active member of The First United Methodist Church, volunteering many hours as part of the kitchen club for the last 30 years. She enjoyed reading books, playing cards, and spending time with friends.

She is survived by three daughters, Chris (Brent) Anderson of Champaign, Illinois, Pat (Bob) Jaffie of Ocala, Florida, and Kathy (Larry) Peterson of Omaha, Nebraska; nine grandchildren, Jason Kohlenberg, Kristi (Brad) McDuffie, Phillip Kohlenberg, Eric (Lisa) Kohlenberg, Rachel Jaffie, David (Stephanie) Jaffie, Nicholas Gilreath, Nolan Gilreath, and Maggie Peterson; and six great-grandchildren, Alex, Riley, Alyssa, Braedan, Kaelan, and Zaylee.

Visitation will be 9 a.m. Saturday, June 3, 2023, until the time of Shirley's service at 11 a.m. at Clyde First United Methodist Church. A luncheon will immediately follow the service.

Memorials in lieu of flowers may be made to Clyde First United Methodist Church, 510 West Maple Street, Clyde, Ohio, 43410, 419-547-0734, https://firstunitedmethodistchurchclyde.org, or Clyde Library, 222 W. Buckeye Street, Clyde, Ohio, 43410, 419-547-7174, https://www.clydelibrary.org/about/gifts-and-donations.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Norwalk Reflector on May 20, 2023.

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Becky Scherger

June 1, 2023

Our sympathy to the family. She was such a sweet lady & such a beautiful soul. We will miss her smile at church. Becky (Smith) & Kevin Scherger

Lesia Luc

May 24, 2023

Shirley was a friend to everyone. She was kind, and loved her faith and family. She loved to laugh and have fun with her silly jokes and stories about life!
We will miss her at The Mane Station.
We enjoyed doing her hair every week for many years.
Thoughts, prayers and sympathy for you girls, and your families!
She loved you all very much!
Lesia and Amy

Bonnie Thomas

May 20, 2023

my condolances to Shirleys family, will miss playing cards with her at the Bellvue senoir center

Jodi Scholl

May 17, 2023

Kathy & Family

My thought's and prayer's are with you all at this difficult time with the loss of Momma.
With Love

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